The thrill of Threesomes: a Trilogy

Part I : My thoughts as a companion

for the curious couple

I’ve been lucky enough these past few years to be invited on dates with a few couples, and I find myself coming back to our encounters with a renewed sense of satisfaction. I find that few experiences are as rich and captivating as sharing a date with a couple. From the moment I arrive, I can’t help but be struck by the energy that they exude, the natural banter, the gentle touches, each speaking volumes about the chemistry they share - and that I’m invited to play with. There’s an inevitable anticipation building simply from watching their gaze and gestures towards each other, and each one building the play that will unravel later on. I can’t help but be charmed.

But the anticipation starts much earlier, and I often find it as early as the first e-mail reaching out to me. The written communication is, I think, something brushed over, but feels like an essential thread for the exhilarating interactions that are to come. I always like to make sure that both people are so in on the deal, that they’re spilling over with excitement. And more often than not, one way to ascertain that is, naturally, details! I think one can’t really help when they’re expressing a fantasy to let a generous portion of the soul to seep through, and that is specifically the secret ingredient to unbridled connection. Think about it -  the steps you take to reach me - from browsing profiles of a myriad companions in London, each with their own seductive flair, and feeling a connection specifically with the lines I wrote, and the photos I’ve shared. 

Your fantasy, vibrant and layered, becomes ignited by something specific you’ve noticed - and it carries through. Your language, the things you express early, or that take time to share, all play into the seductive build of anticipation between us. Each interaction, unique and charged. That’s one of the reasons I like to hear from both parties involved when seeking a threesome or a triad date with me. Within a couple, there’s one dynamic to nurture - within a three way there are four: you and me, me and her, she and you, and all of us together. It’s one of the few times maths becomes boundlessly sexy. Rushing anything could take away from the experience we are trying to create, so I love to take my time exploring each. 

In each three-way encounter there’s a transgressiveness. I find that translates within a couple meeting an escort, as well. This date transcends a traditional narrative of courtship not only by inviting a third, but the third being a courtesan unveils layers potentially more honest and clear than in a dynamic that is less thought out and arranged. It can’t really be more clear that your desires are at the forefront, you are the one dictating the pace, comfort, and the flavour of the sexual experience is specifically tailored to you. And there’s so many reasons why you might want to explore that. To name a few, from my past rendezvous with couples:

Experimenting with Bisexuality

Seeing an escort as a couple in order to give space for yourself to explore your sexuality is such a safe space to dive into a part of yourself that you haven’t had the chance to before. Could be because of lack of previous context, or nerves, or logistics, either way - you can have a container for your feelings and a space dedicated to you within a date with a companion. And if you’re a bisexual woman - oh do I get it! It’s a path paved with unanswered messages, postponed dates, and confusing compliments that make you question your sanity. It’s okay, that’s where I come in.

Experimenting with a Third

Sometimes having a strong desire to widen the dynamic doesn’t mean that both of you are ready to dive into the unknown without some safety in check. Perhaps you’re happy to explore yourselves sexually, but are nervous about a deeper connection being formed with the new person, and you don’t feel quite ready for that? Perhaps you are unsure what feelings the new dynamic might bring up during the date? Considering all this, you don’t want to treat the third person as simply a toy for your experiment, and you don’t feel quite safe to explore from an equal footing. Seeing a companion as a couple would make sure that you have the priority - there will be no threat of the dynamic with the third becoming too threatening, and the predefined arrangement makes it clear that, while I am thoroughly enjoying myself, you two are the stars of the exploration, without any feelings getting hurt.

Experimenting with BDSM

Perhaps you’ve both fantasised about either starting or carrying out a BDSM scene with a new person. But sometimes exploring something novel can feel extremely vulnerable, so you’d like the space contained - be it impact play, or a dominant/submissive dynamic, a specific new kink that you’d like to try, breaching it to a new person might feel a bit daunting. Booking a date with an escort means that you can express all the desires along with the fears, making sure that your comfort is the utmost priority. You can design your own kink experience knowing it will be catered to and the space curated for your fantasy to take the form that is most enriching for you, while also feeling comforted by clear boundaries, professionalism, and a space free of judgement. 

My thoughts on being invited into your world

It is a unique and enchanting adventure as a companion to join a couple in their exploration of sexuality. I feel honoured for you to open up and share the sacred and intimate connection you have, and it feels exhilarating to join not merely as a guest, but also curator of the experience alongside you. It’s a flattering invitation that I will absolutely never take for granted, and often find myself moved and changed after it as well. Be it because you’d like to experiment with your bisexuality, with a throuple/triad dynamic, or BDSM and kink, I’d be delighted to create an unforgettable date with you.

There’s a world free of judgement, curated specifically for your passions and desires, delicately and elegantly handled for your comfort and surrender, and I will meet you there.